Thursday, September 29, 2011

Marriage

Everyone has their different views on marriage. It defers from different cultures. From the reading I learned that in India, they have completely different views on marriage than we do in the U.S. They believe that marriage should be arrange, rather than what they call "love match" which is how it is in the U.S. The article describes a young girl with a degree having to wait for her parents to arrange her marriage. She does not want to be with someone she barely knows. What if it doesn't work out? They should have a right to choose who they want to be with. They should fall in love just like everyone else gets to do. I personally do not believe in arranged marriages. A match should be made by people who love each other. What happens when they do not get along at fight all the time with their kids around? They are forcibly stuck with that person for the rest of their life. The U.S. is not much better though. Now days people get married for a couple months and then get a divorce because it is so easily to be done. Marriage isn't taken seriously like it used to be. When you marry someone you should be with them for forever and they should be who you want to be with. Some people make marriage look like a joke, some-what similar to a middle school relationship. After reading the articles I learned a lot of different views about marriage and how different cultures marry.

2 comments:

  1. I kind of have to disagree with you on the arranged marriages in India. Sometimes when people have the freedom to choose who they want to marry or be with, they may regret those decisions. And if the arranged marriage doesn't work out, they'll do the same thing married people do in the U.S, just get a divorce and start over again. They two people have to learn to cooperate and love each other, which is why they may stay together for longer. People in the U.S. can really make some rash decisions on who they marry, which can alienate other family members if they don't like the other person. It's not like the young people of India will never fall in love, they just have to fall in love in a different way, that's all.

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  2. I completely respect where you are coming from, but in India arranged marriage is apart of a strong tradition. It would be nice if love could be a base for marriages, but like stephanie stressed arranged marriages can end like divorces in America. They believe that letting the parents chose who they marry, is a sign of respect for the parents and showing authority. Every culture has their reasoning behind marriage, that is what makes this world so intriguing because everyone has their own ways of going about a certain tradition, and this week it was learning the ample ways of how marriages work in different societies.

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